Ladies listen, this man did not get used to a kid screaming like you did, he was not kept up nights tending to the crying and projectile poop, he isn’t seasoned in this.

Above all else, including your want for a mate is your child’s safety.

Most teens are cynical and standoffish to new boyfriends so you have to expect hostility initially.

Kids can be great bonuses to meeting someone new and they can also be nightmares just as easily.

When a man gets older he realizes that the chance of meeting a childless woman thins dramatically and the question of “how” may come to his mind in dealing with a child that isn’t his.

I date outside my race, however in Chicago it is pretty hard to find first an open-minded guy with a decent education, career, own place ages 40-50 and lastly Caucasian.

I know I cannot be the only one who is attracted to white men.

You may need to run some sort of background check or something to know what kind of temperament the guy has.

A suave, zen-like guy who can hold in his inner lion is great but if you have a temper tantrum throwing lunatic around your baby, you need to drop him like a bad habit.

It is not your place to discipline an unruly child either, check his/her mom on that, and if it gets too much – call it a day and leave.

Having to play daddy when you’re simply dating a woman is not fair to you either, so don’t ever let them lay that on you as a responsibility.

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Take it slow and be yourself, help out when you can, or when you’re asked, and the number one thing is to be good to their mom.